The opposite of anger is not calmness, it's empathy...

Sympathy & Empathy are two different provisos, with wide peculiarities. Both are powered by feelings. With sympathy you feel for a person, you spectacle sorry for that person or you have a feel of compassion on them. But you do not clearly understand what they are feeling. Most of the times we are left with very little prime but to feel sympathetic since we really can't discern the dilemma of someone else. It needs elegant insight or may be an identical experience to get to empathy. 

 

And empathy can be best construed to feel with the person. So there is a vast contrast between FOR and WITH. But it is hard enough to be explicitly empathetic to someone's feeling since each and every person's feelings are UNIQUE. To a degree we can understand one's sense and try to get set to their feeling and console them. So it is always better to Empathize someone by putting us into their shoes rather that just Sympathizing them. This results more competent in Customer Service, helps us to 'go an extra mile' in appeasing our clients to design a determinative comity.

என் தேடல் நீ

தென்றலுக்கும் குளிரூட்டும் உந்தன் மூச்சு,

குயில் ராகம் கெஞ்சும் உன் பேச்சு;

கயல் தோற்கும் உன் விழியில்,

நிலவும் வெட்கப்படும் உன் வழியில்;

காந்தம் உன் பார்வையிலே,

பந்தம் ஒன்று நீ வளர்த்தாய்;

பூவை நீ சூடவோ,
பூக்கள் உனை சூடுமோ;

புல் தரையில் நீ நடந்தால்,
புலிகளும் பசுவாகும்;

உன் விரல்கள் வருடுகையில்,
மழலை விரல் மென்மை மறந்திடுதே;

உன் நிழல் வீழ்கையில் மண்ணில்,

வீழ்கிறதே என் மனது.

Stop feeling low...

Yeah... at times all of us slump under this aura. But I think, this feel is not going to give us anything dynamic.

Firstly - never, ever co-relate us with others. This would pin-point all the good things in them and make us feel awful. If you think that you do not have anything in you, join an club, a sports team. This will help bringing up a talent to be honored with-in you.

And always emphasize yourself that most of the things in this world are possible if we work hard. It is not enough if we just try, we have to rigorously try till we achieve. So set a goal and work towards it.

Make friends! Sounds abrupt right.... but not, the feel we have of missing something in life can be tackled by the feel through friendship. Sharing can tweak a lot of strain. 

Never say I can't. Give a try for everything, before you scrap it. If you get through, it will give you a great feel that you have reached.

Then grooming plays a great role in making one feel positive. It will disturb you if you feel ugly. Try altering you hair-style, clothing, walk, etc. This will help you feel illustrious.

Communication & open talks are more important. If someone makes you feel adverse, make them realize, whoever it is in a nice way how you felt. Try to fix problems at the earliest as possible. If it prolongs, bigger the problem becomes.

Always stay up-beat, do not let people to sway you down. Because always what they say is their opinion.

Be as what you are, don't try to change yourself for the sake of others. Do what makes you happy and isn't harmful.

Have a smile on your face always. It's been always proven that smiling keeps one happier. If you are sad, smile! If you're happy, smile! Smiling makes you a happier person. Even it inculcates an appealing impact on others over you. And heed it, it's worse to forget your smile than your wallet or cell phone. :)